Source-derived protocol · Coach Kyle
Deepen Travel Talk
Start a travel conversation by asking where she has been and where she wants to go, then deepen it with escalating questions about her craziest, most adventurous, and most secret vacation experiences.
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Move a travel conversation from small talk to deeper and more personal questions.
Ask her where she's been traveling recently and where she wants to go.
- Talk about places you've been to as well.
Recurring · on your cadenceDone when: She has answered where she's been traveling recently and where she wants to go.
Deepen the conversation by asking 'What's the craziest thing you've done on vacation?' or 'What's the most adventurous thing you did?'
Their words · “What's the craziest thing you've done on vacation?”
Recurring · on your cadenceDone when: She has answered the question you asked.
Ask her 'What's one thing that happened on vacation that you don't want anybody to know about?'
Their words · “What's one thing that happened on vacation that you don't want anybody to know about?”
Recurring · on your cadenceDone when: She has answered the question.
Why it works
What Coach Kyle says this builds. Their framing, not ours — every line links to where they said it.
Use future projections: joke about doing something together in the future, then dial it back
Future projections — suggesting you and she will do something together later — are rated S-tier. Introduce them as a hypothetical joke (e.g., 'are you going to travel with me or what?'), then dial back to a smaller real plan like grabbing coffee first.
View in the full analysis →Pointing out what you notice about her is S-tier
The host ranks pointing out what you notice about her in the moment at S-tier and calls it one of the best things you can do. Breaking away from the current topic to comment on something about her right now is really powerful: because women really care about other people's perception of them, it instantly brings the conversation back to being about her and snaps her attention onto what you're talking about.
View in the full analysis →Talking about 'us' is S-tier
The host ranks talking about 'us' — you and the woman together — as one of the best things to talk about and puts it in the S tier. He describes that guys who are really good at making an interaction flirty can turn any topic into a 'us' frame.
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Source-derived protocol
Based on “What Women Actually Want to Talk About (TIER LIST)” by Coach Kyle.
- Source fidelity verifiedPassed · Oct 15, 2026
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